The smoking. Several of my married acquaintances did not work for about 10-12 years, having two children. The reasons are very banal.
They did not give a place in the kindergarten, they gave, but very far away, they were unable to exchange, the child was often sick, had to take, the child has health problems, it is not yet disability, but rehabilitation is required, the child went to school, the road to school includes crossing the highway with an unregulated transition, a second change in the junior classes. She also cared for a sick relative.
On one salary survived, sought jobs, relatives helped, but they now have physically and mentally healthy children.
And what now will such women be declared tuna-eaters and demand to pay taxes when they have every penny on their account?