In order to change the situation, someone must take the first step towards it.

Yes, and at the same time it is necessary to make sure that this is ONLY one step before the other party makes the second step, and also to meet. The main mistake is to constantly make all kinds of concessions without receiving anything in response. In this case, it is easier to turn and leave, and it is not excluded that with this arrangement, the other party will give the desired reaction. Well, or at least find yourself free and get a chance to start all over again with other people.