About the pleasure in my car: I don't mind, somebody can sometimes be in trouble. While the car is only bought and the joy is over. In the rest - I believe that you experience the pleasure of driving when I learn that you deliberately choose the road more genuine and before parking a couple of circles around the area cut for pleasure.
Driving a car is a job. And I would be happy to put it on a specialist who will perform it qualitatively for a moderate fee.
Your car is necessary in certain situations - a house away from the city, motor tourism as a hobby. In some cases, a working machine is needed. And the idea of "a million people, each in their own car, daily drive from one stop to another, intentionally knocking the road and suffering in traffic jams, but they are comfortable - they have soft chairs, air conditioning and magnets there - the idea is completely unhealthy.