You will decide, men hide their desire as partisans, or climb with their piss where they do not ask.
One does not cancel the other. And, in general, the idea that they are everywhere is as stupid as crying about a friendzone. So people like a very small percentage of people of the opposite sex, all the others are in a fairly wide range "do not cause disgust". There are, of course, a certain portion of winners in life, one here even dropped off. They always need someone to fuck for a crack, to satisfy their own importance, social status, anything to tell, etc. But they have problems with friendship, so they usually don’t make sense to allow any trust relationship.