I’ve learned a lot about borrowed people.

I go to a cheap barber class "in the basement of the neighboring house". One day in the manicure room at the next table was a man. Not a hipstovato-androgynic young man, but quite an adult and solid. I was very nervous that because of the manicure will be considered not brave enough, and everyone who held his gaze on it for more than a few seconds, with a challenge explained - no, say, I am not a pedicure at all, but just watch myself and don't want to look like a tractorist, and you are all slaves of stereotypes!

Another man-client, who was sitting at the third table, quietly laughed at this, but he did not get into the conversation, and he - oh, a miracle! - No one called it not brave enough for some reason (at least out loud).