What if I don’t wear it?

Again it is relative. In this case, you need to divide not only the money, but also the labor costs in half. Here’s a list of things that usually need to be shared:
cleaning, cooking, dishwashing, washing, smoothing, small repairs, payment of bills (not in financial terms), purchase of products, calling for necessary services for home service, drawing up a schedule of major cases, administering activities (Dr. Ng...) A separate article is the maintenance and upbringing of the child (it is even possible to set up a separate account for his needs).

And what about the process of childbirth, childbirth, child care in the first years of life? Intangible element of education, etc. This then also divide in half, and what, it turns out, uncle sunny-out, some may even have a pleasure received - and went quietly to earn money, which can calmly spend on herself, because the lady in the decree as if not working and can not contribute proportionate 50%. So, from the moment of departure to the decree, she is as if hungry, living first on maternity allowance and care, and then at all, without having a child in the garden, sitting without a penny, since the husband earns 100%, and the wife - 0.

And in general, what a fortune that there are no openly greedy uncles and aunts in my surroundings, nor such good friends who have separated this mess here. I’m not specifically the author of the text I quoted (this just went right), I’m about the rough shit in principle.