Many communication problems arise because people are used to generalizing and extrapolating. For example, a girl will write on the forum: a man should be brave, determined and take responsibility for himself, a boy will read this and decide that this is the opinion of all girls. And then he will try to meet some feminist girl who perceives all this determination as aggression and a try to pressure. The result is file. Or the girl is listening to statements that all men only need sex, will adjust to it, and then rush to the guy, raised on animated haremniks and dreaming of romance. The girl is ready to give him straight from the move, and he looks at her with confused eyes and thinks, "Why is she such a fool?"
We are all different. Quiet home girl can love tough porn and anal. A hundred-kilogram duck can love roses and painting. An amateur chasing naked around the apartment may not even think that this is provocative behavior. Talk to each other, ask each other, know each other, and then the relationship will be much more understandable and pleasant.