Wife or girlfriend?
I have always been angry with this attitude toward my wife... she is a wife, she is obliged to serve her husband! He is at work and is a hero. She goes, too, but no one is cooking her food, cleaning up in the house and dressing her dress for the morning...except Mommy! Therefore, living with the mother of an adult lady is much more convenient than with a man. And the child is watched, and the mother will let go, at least with a friend, at least with a girlfriend.