>I’ve loved red half-sweet all my life, which I’ve repeatedly sounded."
>>Well a man confused white with red or a blonde with a brunette, sometimes.

If I had betrayed, I would never have confused. Lying is also a skill. A person who lies constantly, such important things as the tastes and preferences of his perceivers, always clearly shares in his head. And your husband may not be a pickup guru, but he sincerely wanted to please you. And the course of his thoughts,, was about that "hmm.. somewhere here something she once said..."