My former colleague on one of the first dates with a guy ordered food from a restaurant. This event was shut down so that he didn’t realize that she couldn’t cook.
And after some time, a colleague left the guy because through the third hand learned that he was married and six months as in a divorce, but did not say right away.
All this was accompanied by the phrase: I don’t want our relationship to start with a lie.
She saw no contradiction anywhere.