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Most men engage a woman not to talk to her. Certainly not to listen to her. Furthermore, from the words of family psychologist Paul Zygmantovich (maybe, a man at least someone will hear): when another such "genius" leaves his wife and he gets to a family psychologist with the request "normal but everything was, do everything back", there is a stereotypical conversation. Maybe his wife was unhappy? Maybe it was. Did she not say? Yes, I said this, this and that. A hundred times a day. Did you do anything about what I said? Changed something? and no. And why? Little to say by the grandmother.
And I’m very happy for women who have spent on such “relationships” only part of their lives. Those who survived them. Those who realized that their life shouldn’t look like that. They are not obliged to be silent. You DO NOT need to negotiate with someone who does not want to be counted with you, who is convenient to do their own way without regard to your needs and who thinks it is right. It’s right when you’re someone else’s, not when one relationship has one and the other doesn’t.