> "Does it make sense for us to continue living together if you don’t want to do what I want?"

I am also surprised that is not so. She wants to do one thing, he wants to do another, and no one wants to waste his time doing something he doesn’t need. The conclusion is: do something together. If they had eight more lives in stock, you could first do, for example, something compromising, then try to build a family and life as she wants, then - as he wants... But in any case - why?! After all, you can right now and right here live your life with the one (and) who suits the way it is arranged for you. What to do for this? It is right: stop pushing the unflattering and blowing up the unflattering. I would also not agree to live with a person who, say, does not want to follow the expressions, respect my dignity and personal space. Or solve household problems together. Or he wants to communicate with me much more/less than I want and can. Do you want to continue such relationships?