Here it is simple: if a man is shit, then he will behave accordingly. Independent of gender.
Do not worry, and you will be lucky.

My dear, but all conflicts happen for one reason: each side believes that the opponent behaves like a shit. He requires too much, gives too little. The only way out is to try to look at the situation from the opposite side. Women have long been able to compare, for example, caring for a baby and going to work. And the men? Hint: the vast majority of moms are eager to finally set up a child in the kindergarten and go to work. Why do you think so?