If your husband is stupid and selfish it is your choice, if your wife is stupid and foolish it is the same.

Only if he or she announces it. You know, our square nest, people 1) show themselves from the best side during care, hiding the shortcomings (consciously or not), 2) CHANGE with the years and when the situation changes. In particular, a woman who was married to an officer told me that he was much less off when she had the opportunity to work. Unfortunately, when they lived in military towns, there were simply no female vacancies, but when he was transferred to the city, she always worked. And before the wedding, he did not say a word that he was going to oppress her when she became dependent on him. Strange, they usually have to warn, right?