Gautama did not leave his wife, he temporarily left her, then returned when he had reached Nibbani.
She later became a nun.
In general, the example of Sakyamuni is incorrect.

Gauguin actually acted like a pig, 6 children, nothing to eat at home, his wife on three jobs, and he left to cheat the Thai women. Fu is like that. Absolutely unhuman behavior.
And it’s not about the situation of a person, but specifically in the example of Gogen.