I was a witness to such a scene.
In the church after the service, the parishwoman approaches the father, and then about such a dialogue.
- Father, my husband... (hereinafter a list of various outrageous and socially denounced acts, including handicapping)
Did you talk to him about it yourself?
He said, and he continued.
And repeatedly?
and yes.
So get divorced from him.
The face of the woman expressed confusion, because she clearly expected to hear the standard set of reasoning about humility, punishment for sins, beats - that is, loves and generally all live that way.
Will God not be angry?
Do you think that if your husband is going to slander you and your children, God will like it more?
Prior to this, the same father asked which saint should put a candle for healing, he replied that first let them go to the doctor, and then put candles to the one of the saints who likes it more. Sometimes common sense wins.