When I was young, I worked on repairing my small area. I had a car in the shape of a barrel instead of a house.
A couple of young families were housed nearby.
So I got tired of using the drill. I forgot my home. I ask my neighbor.
I – “Listen, let the drill drill a couple of holes.”
The neighbor says, “I don’t have a dick myself.”
I am. “Well, I’ll ask another neighbor.”
S.- "a bad idea, it is inadequate in general, it is better not to connect with it."
To explain “inadequacy”, however, he could not.
I go to another neighbor.
I – “listen, the drill is needed, just a couple of holes.”
The neighbor 2. "Listen, the drill is not new to me, you understand that if it burns in your hands, it will be unpleasant for you and me. I will be ashamed to ask you for a new drill, but you will be unhappy to give a new drill for the old drill.”
I thought, “Now it’s clear why he’s inadequate, greedy on the go.”
And the neighbor continues - "giving I will come to you with my drill and help everything that needs to be done, for free and neighborly. And if anything happens to the drill, it will be boring to me alone.”
He came to me and helped me. Since then, I have done the same with others. In my opinion, the most appropriate decision.