I don’t care about the doors you don’t hold and the hands you don’t give.
I always hold the door in front of a person, regardless of their gender, and with the same likelihood I will give a seat in the transport to both my grandmother and grandfather. Stop covering up with these outcry like "you are feminists, so do everything yourself". You are ordinary tram hams, not some super-principial lovers of gender equality. For you and the dishes is washed at home by the sky mom, and you only know how to throw away dirty socks, eat the food prepared by a woman and argue on the topic of "what babies are frogs".