I work as a psychologist. My girlfriend finds her 15-year-old son with a bullet on his head. She didn’t say a word to him. She comes and says, "what am I doing wrong, why does my child do it?" and we start to find out with her and it turns out that she is having a strong insult to men, father, brother, ex-husband. She started working on this problem. Today, the guy is 20 years old and he does not suffer from such a fist.
You don’t have to work with the child, you have to work with yourself. Pity your children, help them, do not leave your problems on their shoulders. Don’t be surprised that in the high school he started drinking, when you eat yourself at feasts with relatives and friends from a deep youth. Don’t scream that he’s failing, once he gets three or four in a quarter, when your grades in school are one in physical education.
by Nakipelo. You come to me screaming that your children are a nightmare, and you don’t want to admit that the nightmare is you.