So it turned out that the wife was supposed to come to court (it must be said a terribly disgusting and crazed uncle).
On this occasion, she was upset and scared, not knowing how to behave, this will happen. To encourage and instruct her, I begin the conversation:
I: Do you know what three rules are when communicating with authorities?
Mmmmmmmmm...
I: Well, there’s a song like that with Dad (meaning "Don’t Believe, Don’t Fear, Don’t Ask")
Q: "We are not caught"
Q: "The boy gay"?
Q: "People with disabilities?"
Q: "Simple movements"
I am...........