Yes, my beloved wife, of course, as a woman, you have a right to care. But I will only take you to the restaurant when I come home after work in the cleaned apartment, and dinner will be waiting in the kitchen.

You have an interesting family, bro. You get her to the restaurant for dinner and cleaning. It gives you “access to the body” for a repaired socket and removed garbage... Maybe it’s easier, love separately, household separately, isn’t it?